Whether or not!!

Isn't it a difficult question?

Well, I'm going to apply it via a single or mingle theory. When a woman is about to turn 30, this is why the society runs after her. And beleive me, runs like crazy! Whether or not people are related, whether or not people are interested in understanding if the food really has to be eaten by chopsticks, but they truely want to know WHY ISN'T SHE GETTING MARRIED?

I understand the theory not in a mob mentality, but in a practial and real situation!

1. Convince your parents.

This is a good start, because if you think that your parents are the best people in this world to understand you. Wel you're wrong! They are the first people you can count on to if you want to get married, but not vice versa. Parents will never understand the reason why you want to stay single. And trust me there's a "WHY". They simply cannot digest the fact that it is your decision. They simply cannot buy there daughter's decision. Well according to them, the decision is never convincing enough and you will just waste explaining them your reasons for years. 4 years is my number btw!

2. Talk to your relatives.

Try and understand guys. This is the next wrong step! Because these relatives will take you on a tour making you understand the pluses of getting married. Really! My counter reaction, how happy are you today? Given a chance of staying single, will you? And all my elder cousin sisters will hoot out loud in your support.

I ponder, how difficult is it to grasp for people to understand my individuality, to respect my knowledge and understanding, to maintain a social discipline and happiness.

No one will help or support you with your descision because, according to them all you are still to discover a lot and they being your elders obviously are more wise. Not disagrreing, but why are they not ready to understand me, my fears, my vision towards my life, my path that I have designed my way and wish to walk through it alone and single.

Friends are there for your support, for a time, but yes take a note that after a time you cannot just rely on them. Understand yourself and your way of living, if you can take all the harshes and lovelies by and on yourself, you are good to go, but the minute you go weak and look after for a support, boy you need a partner in your life. But don't just search a partner for your own sexual needs, look that he/ she is also a human and looks for a support and you have to be there for him/ her.

The journey of a single is difficult but worth a life!